Around here, it gets back to land size in general, and acreage per hunter in particular. have an across the road neighbor with 1400 acres high fence and he produces some nice deer. I have a neighbor behind me with 1200 acres and they kill nice deer. A 1000 acre neighbor behind him who leases his land - and they have an 8 pt, 14” rule. They have killed 18 bucks so far this year. But they have a lot of folks hunting including kids and spouses. There are some 40 acre neighbors who try a little bit early season and then fold and kill a 2.5 yr old buck or two or three or seven. And the 12 adjacent 5 to 15 acre neighbors dont even try.
There will never be enough mature bucks running around for everyone to kill one. There are too many hunters. To expect a guy who has ten acres to hold out for a 4 yr old buck is not reasonable. To expect everyone who is paying 1500 lease fee to not kill any bucks between the whole family is not reasonable. Many people on this forum live this stuff. The average guy cant go buy 350 acres just to hunt on - the average guy cant buy five acres to hunt on.
Believe it or not, a lot of folks enjoy the whole hunt - just like we do, except when the last day of mg season comes, they arent thinking about winter projects and spring planting, and roller crimpers and grain drills. They are thinking about getting kids to school, working their two jobs, getting one kid to cheer, one kid to baskeball, and one kid to the doctor and stopping by to see granny in the old folks home and picking up grandpa’s medicine to bring home for him - who they take care of.
I have a son who makes GOOD money - a Dr - specialist. He is mid 40’s in age. He gets to hunt about twenty days a year. He runs his own clinic and has three kids at home. He barely has time to sleep. I asked him what he was going to do when he retired - he said “if I am lucky, I am going to do what you do”.
A lot of folks on this forum are living in a dream world - and still not happy.