So far what I am seeing is, those of you who are trying to convince the rest that antlers are important, have lost interest, and dont get excited to shoot deer. That sounds like you are just bored with deer hunting.
If I see 2 deer, of course I am going to shoot the bigger one, if I shoot one of them. I dont think many will tell you they dont want to shoot a trophy buck every year, but I think it isnt important to them as shooting a deer every year. Lots of deer camps, and they like to take home some meat, and while there is some bragging rights about the bigger racks, there is belittling about not getting a deer as well. I like venison, and like to eat it. Having some venison pepper sticks, and summer sausage every year is a lot more important to me, then a rack that will get tossed out on the side of the shed. Traditions of families and friends getting together, shooting deer, and BS'ing about their hunts is what brings people to love the sport. Not hoarding, preventing, blocking your neighbors from shooting "your" deer before you are satisfied that it is old enough. Would it make you happier if your neighbor shot a 120" random buck, or your target 200" buck every year? Your honest answer would be neither, dont shoot deer by me, these are my deer to shoot when I think they are big enough.