This isn't exactly in line with the course this thread has taken, but the question was rather open ended.
I'm a "Bootstraps" guy. I don't buy into the idea that ANY American can't make him or herself a success if they simply make good choices and do the right thing consistently over time. I'm not rich. I didn't come from money. My Dad was a cop and my mom a teacher's aid, in a high cost of living part of the country. We didn't have a lot, but always had enough to eat and a roof over our head. I worked a paper route as a young boy then had two jobs through high school. Somehow I also managed to have some fun.
So, at 19 years old without any real prospects in life, I joined the USAF and did that for 9 years. After that I worked as a paramedic (thank you Uncle Sugar for the Paramedic certification) and went to school full-time using the GI bill. I'd pull a 24 or 48 hour EMS shift then head straight to class. Some days were easier than others. Then, I'd head to my Spartan efficiency apartment in a bad part of town to eat, study and sleep on my second hand couch. I did this for years. Work, eat, sleep study; rinse and repeat.
I didn't do drugs. I didn't do crime. I didn't knock up a girl. It was nose to the grindstone. After that it was work, work work in a career I liked at first but hated for the last few. By then, I had a wife, kids a mortgage and all that. So, I did it. I kept doing it even when I hated it so much it made me want to "take all the pills at once". I'm still not rich. But we'll be OK. We own a little property and a home with no mortgage. Now, I live in the country in South Dakota and haul milk on the night shift until I decide I don't want to anymore and I'll retire to kill deer and catch fish.
If this mediocre man can do it, anybody can. You can't convince me otherwise. So, for me, the question is this. "Which political party aligns best with my lived experience?"