i agree with you my man! I don't care about ruining someone life over their opinion either, but, the line between work and personal life is pretty gray.
Hey Cat, I know you're in the school system, so you'll appreciate this...back about 15 years ago, Jenks High School (where both my wife, me, and my son attended school) went down the rabbit hole, and started checking all students and employees social media accounts. If you were a student, and had any pics of you with a solo cup in your hand, you were kicked off whatever athletic team you were on. I think the tennis team, swimming team, football, etc lost quite a few players. Now, this high school is at the upper eschelon of oklahoma high school athletics. State champs in many sports, every year. High median family income. Highly supported booster clubs, etc. So you know that the well off parents of the kids who were kicked off flexed their muscles, and it didn't make a damn bit of difference.
I personally thought that was a little overboard, however, I appreciated the fact that this school system had standards, and they had to be met or there was going to be a penalty. And that's why they're regarded as an excellent public school system.