If you're not mentally prepared to kill someone to save yourself or another - you shouldn't carry a gun. The moment you have to draw on someone isn't the time to come to terms with that outcome, that hesitation could get you killed.
Our "instructors" harp on the idea of "stopping the threat" because that's the legal jargon you need to speak when you've used lethal force in our society. In reality a wounded aggressor is an angry one and adrenaline makes things worse before they get better. Add drugs to their chemistry and you need to shut the central nervous system down or they'll keep on coming. People can survive a stomach wound for several hours, with a punctured lung, you're still going to have some time before they slow down. With a leaking heart or liver, the oxygen in the brain runs out from low blood pressure and they'll pass out. See where I'm going here?
It's very empowering to carry a gun. There's not much that concerns me when I see shady characters around, but situational awareness is my greatest defense. Not being part of a bad situation is the best solution. I carry a gun because leaving fast enough isn't always possible. 99% of people who carry will never draw their weapon. I used a handgun twice in self defense before ever getting my permit - none since. I like it that way.
Good neighborhood or not, there's a lot of situations people get drawn into these days which they couldn't have avoided by walking away from.
Flash mobs are the reason I dumped my single stack 1911 for the double. 8 rounds might not be enough to get me out of there. I hope 13 is never needed.
I am starting to look at 9 mm as more rounds and less explosive power but it is not about how many rounds, but how effective the 1st couple are ...
The bangers around here love their little .25's. Them and .22's have small entry wounds and usually no exit wound, however they bounce around inside and tear organs apart.I'm very surprised no one carries a 380 with all the lil carry pistols out there in this cal. I met a guy in the gun shop that got shot square in the deltoid with a 380. It lodged in his clavicle. He said it felt like somebody punched him really hard in the shoulder with a slight burning sensation added to it haha. Bet it would be a different story with a 9 or a 40 which with right ammo would have shattered his clavicle no doubt!
It's not all about the caliber, it is highly dependant on the type and quality of ammunition. I've personally seen where a guy took two rounds from a .357 fired from less than 10 feet away. The guy "caught" one round in his baggie hoody and tried to keep it as a souvenir. The other round entered his forearm and pretty much stopped causing minimal damage. He now wears a tattoo over the wound that says "*uck you better luck next time". The ammo was old and not of very good quality to begin with. Dude likely being released on parole next year.One of my friends boy got shot point blank with a 357.......twice.......and lived. Check it out!
http://redrockonair.com/news/2010/04/30/hecht-sentenced-to-three-years-in-prison-for-shooting/
.22, .25, .32, 9mm, .38/.357, .40, .41, .45.............................................o_O
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Are 300gr. solid soft points behind 55 grains of H110 good enough to be considered "quality self defense stuff". They stop charging wild boars in their tracks, I'm thinking they would have been ok as man-stoppers as well. ;) It only held 6 shots but you weren't hiding behind anything, because it would penetrate a car door at 25 yards and have no issue continuing on to put a hole in the door on the opposite side of the car. Ask me how I know.:eek::D
It's not all about the caliber, it is highly dependant on the type and quality of ammunition. I've personally seen where a guy took two rounds from a .357 fired from less than 10 feet away. The guy "caught" one round in his baggie hoody and tried to keep it as a souvenir. The other round entered his forearm and pretty much stopped causing minimal damage. He now wears a tattoo over the wound that says "*uck you better luck next time". The ammo was old and not of very good quality to begin with. Dude likely being released on parole next year.
I wouldn't recommend anybody carry less than a .38 special +P round for self defense.
Edit... And please don't be cheap and lazy and carry FMJ target rounds. Get yourself some quality self defense stuff.