Man you didn’t hijack at all! I enjoy meaningful conversations in my realm! So many guys act like because they get pictures of big deer, it makes them great hunters. Pictures and harvests are vastly different! I’m living in it right now. I walked away from bow hunting in 2012 after shooting the biggest buck of my life because I thought I’d never top it and we also had to sell our land.
In those early years I passed a lot of bucks. I’ve hunted  and managed property a long time. Specifically bow hunted. I have two young children now and a wife who wasn’t raised in a hunting family.  Now all the sudden, here we are again and now we own OUR own land after busting ass for the last 10 years.
I’ve been asking myself some very hard questions the last couple weeks. Every time I come home after skipping hours with my family. Days. Empty handed, but staring at pictures of big deer on my trail cam app and showing them. Why am I doing this? To continue to “one up” my last best buck? To “manage” a healthy deer herd? To capture great footage???
I didn’t start hunting for those reasons. I did because I loved being in God’s creation. To experience the high’s of a harvest and then reap the rewards of bounty with my family. Now, I’m raising kids to see it as I do currently and that’s a struggle man. It’s taking all the fun out of hunting.  I want to experience the thrill with my family but putting a stipulation on if I shoot a 160 or a big healthy doe that doesn’t jeopardize a mature buck’s pattern. I just don’t think I wanna play that game raising my kids. My wife and them will grow to rebuke hunting if that’s the common result.
I just need more land. More, more, more. Planters, drills, seed, new bow, cameras. WHAT IN THE WORLD! What’s happening to me?! We aren’t guaranteed another day, hour or minute….
Sorry rant over! I’ll kill a big one by next week. Or a basket 8. And I promise at the end of that judgement call, I’ll be equally as happy. With my family in tow!
		
		
	 
Those deer are absolute beauties! And would tempt anyone who enjoys the thrill of a hunt and successful harvest. 
BUT, I’m responding to this post for a reason. This is the best post I’ve read on this forum. It’s something that has been on my mind as well. Here is a text exchange between myself and my brother in law while we were sitting in our respective stands last week (both of us are married and have young kids at home). He’s a highly accomplished bow hunter, one of the most dedicated I know. 
Pardon the language, but you get the gist. We were both outside doing something we deeply enjoy during the best time of the year to do it - and both were thinking about what we were sacrificing at home. Family is everything. Sure, I’d love to tag a trophy but I’m not going to miss out on the more important things to do so. 
I shared the deer above to illustrate my hunch that they do return to their summer range during the rut. I didn’t even bother hunting that deer despite it being the biggest I had on camera this year. My wife even encouraged me to go out there to hunt! But I knew the time involved wasn’t worth it when I have a 7mo old bowling ball of a son at home who wants to drool and spit up on me all afternoon. 
I’ve skipped hunts this year to dress up in silly costumes on Halloween, to clean the house, just to hang with the little guy. I’m in the same headspace as you sir.
I’ll continue to work on habitat management on the property because it’s something I truly enjoy & hope to share with my son some day. But truthfully, I don’t care if I ever tag a “big buck” here. I love watching my wife get excited to get out and hunt. My father in law has spent 3X the time hunting my property this year than I have. I believe my brother is coming to rifle hunt here this year which will be his first hunt in probably 10 years. That’s what it’s all about to me. I love getting outside and working on our land and having the opportunity to enjoy that with others, regardless of what the outcome is. 
I think the hunting industry and social media have bastardized this hobby into a giant competition that no one can win. At its purest, it’s time spent with friends and family and enjoying the bounty together if successful. 
Your post was a breath of fresh air. I hope this mindset continues to be permeate the industry. 
PS. “Saturday” had my palms a little sweaty just looking at that pic 

