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I am very much in the same situation Brooks. My dad and uncle have passed the "work" and decision making on to me. They are just glad to be out there and just want to hunt and not worry about the details. My daughters first turkey is on the very top of my best hunting memories list, as I was calling for her in the same blind. Her first deer was great too, but I was in a stand 80 yards away when she shot her first deer. Much like yourself(and many others on here), I would rather see the other hunters in our party have success.
I have never been that "competitive" with deer, waterfowl on the other hand, is a totally different story!;)
I love turkey hunting. But when I go with my kids its a whole different deal. Hands down my favorite outdoor pursuit. Except for sleeping out for flatheads. Or maybe MN rifle season with 3 generations in the same blind. I have become a very social hunter since I sold out and got back to family hunting, and am very lucky to value others success over mine the past few seasons. While I do the bulk of the work. Would not change a thing.