Tap,
The animals do not need us to determine what is best for them. We don't have to manage them. They would do just fine without us. They don't need you to hunt them and they don't need me to feed them and make them do unnatural things for my benefit. We do these things because we want to do them and because it gives us enjoyment. If anything, the hunters have the "excuse" that they are dong so for the meat i.e. food i.e. survival. They spend more money on equipment than if they simply bought the meat. It is fine to hunt and it is fine to feed wildlife - to a limit, for both - BUT it is not fine to deceive ourselves and say we are doing these things for reasons other than what is the case. You like the challenge of the hunt and when that challenge was gone - because you corrupted and tamed the animals - it was not the same for you. You are "using" the animals and so am I. The fact that you (and I, also) care about wildlife and the land does not mean what I said is any less true. If we all evaporated one day leaving only the animals, they would do just fine without us. The herd does not need you and the turkeys don't need me. If we had butt out of everything, the herd would have natural predators like wolves and pumas and so would the turkeys. Things would run just fine - if not better - without us. You like the thrill of the hunt and I like manipulating the animals for my own amusement. The animals, however, don't need either of us and they don't need any of our comrades i.e. other humans. Hunters often dislike "wildlife lovers" and wild life advocates often dislike hunters. Each feels they are helping the animals but the reality is that the animals don't need any of us. They don't need our "help."
I think there is a misunderstanding here surrounding the word "use". Use can have a negative connotation to some. However, with the basic meaning of the word "use" we hunters certainly do "use" wildlife. Everyone "uses" wildlife in that sense. Even vegans live in cities where human predators have been removed. They are benefitting from the fact that others have removed them.
The real question is "Do we use wildlife in an ethical and responsible way?". Sport hunters have a lot of challenges in this area. One is the ethic of fair chase. Another is giving back. Back when this country was being established, market hunters harvesting very high numbers of wildlife for commercial purposes put many species at risk. It was sport hunters that saw an important resource they use diminishing and at risk. They were instrumental in establishing the first game agencies and game laws to protect the resource.
Many on this site hunt for a multiplicity of reasons and you have named many. Regardless of why they hunt, most here are more interested in ensuring the local populations are healthy and stay in balance with the habitat. You are correct, wildlife in general do fine without management as long as many does not intrude. Nature is a cruel master and wildlife will boom and bust. Predation and disease can be much more brutal than a bullet or arrow. However, humans exist in the same space and we use the entire environment. When we talk about "managing wildlife", we are talking about compensating for human intervention, and keeping numbers in balance with the environment. For example, when large predators were largely removed (so you don't have to worry about your 2 year old being food for wolves or grizzly bears) deer number could rise. When deer numbers get too high, they can remove important habitat for birds and small mammals. If you have ever seen a browse line in an overpopulated area, it can be impressive. When populations get too high, disease can cause populations to bust. Yes, nature will take care of it, but it can be ugly.
Yes, we all use wildlife. The question is do we use it wisely. Conservation is the wise use of natural resources and most on this site would consider themselves as conservationists.
Best of luck with your endeavor. Just like we, as hunters, ask ourselves a lot of ethical questions, you should consider doing the same if you haven't. As long as what you are doing is within the law and you are informed about the possible consequences, and you are comfortable with the ethics, just enjoy it!
Thanks,
Jack