I have a fel on both my tractors - but dont really use them that much - and yes, the big tractor is much better with a loader, but if I am going to do a decent size clearing job, I still pay someone with a dozer or mulcher. Bigger tractors cost more to buy, more to run, more to maintain, more to repair, and more to move. The implements used behind bigger tractors are also subject to increased expenses. Bigger tractors get stuck easier and cant be used on as wet of ground. I bet my 65 horse tractor with fel and bush hog is pushing 25’. My little tractor is about 18’ with bush hog. The little tractor is shorter and you dont have as many limbs slapping your face. Working trails and around trees is a challenge with the big tractor.
When I bought my bigger tractor, most guys I know told me “get the biggest one you can afford”. The tractor salesman asked me what sized implements I was going to use and we went from there. I was going to get an 85 hp and he talked me into a 65 hp and could have got away with a 55 hp. I plant 40 to 50 acres a year. I use an 8 ft disk, an 84” woods seeder, and a seven ft bush hog. If I went larger than 8 ft, I would have to do some serious trail widening. If I had to have one tractor - it would be something in the 45/50 hp range in the next frame size down from my 65 hp tractor. But, make no mistake - having two tractors is nice.