First, Congrats on your success (the big grin) and that of your son!
There is nothing like the challenge of drawing in the presence of game and maintaining good form to execute a good shot on a deer. The thrill in unparalleled. The next best thing is a crossbow. It has the same basic ballistics as a compound bow. You still need to get up close and personal with your quarry fooling multiple senses. You still need to deal with shot angle, deer demeanor, and such. The only advantage is that you don't have to draw in the presence of game and the stock enforces shooting form for you. When you think about it, most of us hunt with a muzzleloader or modern firearm which are a fraction of the challenge of a crossbow and no one except an archery purist demeans them.
I'm a 50/50 guy now that I'm getting older. I can still use my Mathews Switchback early in the season when it is warm and the weather is good. As the season progresses, my arthritis precludes me drawing. I used to use height as one means of concealing my draw but my days of hang-on stands are behind me. I'm now limiting myself to ladder stands which are lower height and box blinds for safety reasons. These both lend themselves to a crossbow rather than a vertical bow.
I've killed enough does and young bucks with a compound bow over my lifetime that it doesn't matter much to me what tackle I use to harvest them. I actually prefer anything which increases my chances of recovery. When it comes to a mature buck, I'm sure I'll be caught with a crossbow in my hands some day when I wish I had my compound. A few years back that happened to me during muzzleloader season. I had been using my compound during both our archery and muzzleloader seasons. It was getting near the end of muzzleloader season and I wanted to put some meat in the freezer so I decided to take my muzzleloader. I ended up shooting a mature buck about 10 yards from my stand and he had no idea I was there. It would have been a chip shot with my compound.
As each year passes, I see more crossbow time in my future!
Thanks,
Jack