I admire your restraint. I passed on one last weekend that I'd normally shoot, cause I want my grandson or son to have a chance at him. Not huge rack, but has some character for sure. He was 20 yds with my bow, I'd give odds at about 90% that he'd have been mine if I'd had shot.
Plus, got to watch him for about 5 minutes, hitting a scrape, and every low hanging branch he could reach, hard.
No matter who ends up with him, I still consider him my deer, cause I did let him walk, and that's good enough for me.