110% of this. Too much emphasis on horns, not enough for the experience, family, and most of all the animals.
		
		
	 
Agreed. awhile back i was posting about my hunting coming full circle.  Started deerhunting at 12 with grandpa and uncle. Brown jersey gloves on, sometimes tubesocks for gloves.  Mtn Dew in my back pocket and a gun/longbow in my hand.  Meeting up at the truck for bologna sandwiches at lunch. Then me at 12-13 driving them old farts back home on dirt roads.  Next day shooting the first deer I saw, and having them show me how to gut/skin/process it up.  
We cowboy camped alot too. They did that for me because I was always up long before they were, raring to go, and they would mosey around too much in the morning, and cause us to be late. So they just bit the bullet and and took me camping, sleeping on the ground, or in the bed of the truck, so I could get out there before daylight while they sat around drinking cowboy coffee
As I got more experienced, the antlers started to matter.  I was getting more aggressive every year.  The old farts got older, I got more and better equipment, spent more days in the field when those guys couldn't be there, etc. More emphasis on the big buck than the family aspect.
Now that I'm older, and own most every trinket you could have for deer hunting, I'm back to sticking a Mtn Dew bottle in my back pocket, and just sitting down at the base of a tree with my grandson. I look forward to our conversations before we get there, and when we all meet back up at the end of the day. He soaks up everything I tell him, and it makes me proud of him.  I can see my younger self in him already.  He's not going to be a snowflake when he grows up, for sure. 
yes, i want muy grande like everyone else. but if i had to choose between a 180" buck or giving up hunting with my son and grandson, there is no decision to even make.  The simple family dynamic and beautiful nature is the ultimate prize.