In my way of thinking there is an easy answer for the OP. Let's look at what has been established:
1. He despises corn piles and feeders. Therefore, even if he feels it is effective, he should't do it.
2. He is okay with food plots and is already planting them.
3. The one thing that he and everyone else agrees with in this thread is that corn is a powerful draw. Therefore, he should probably have some corn.
4. The logical thing to do is for him to plant corn in his food plots. That way he will be countering the draw from the neighbors with corn in a way that he approves of.
5. He can decide whether or not to hunt over the corn. It doesn't matter whether he does or not, because the objective is to be drawing deer to his land rather than them being drawn to the neighbors. He has the best possible scenario without compromising his beliefs.
PS: You will notice how much disagreement there was on this thread about daylight use, and some guys proved with pictures that they have daylight use. This illustrates how different deer can be at various locations, depending mostly on pressure.
Even though I know that deer will come to corn, I will take the habitat I've built over corn all day long. I can tell you that by the third day of gun season here, I would much rather be hunting a travel way in thick cover than I would a corn pile. By that time, the old guys have it all figured out.