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After giving some consideration to the nameless organization that is the subject of another thread in this "General" section, I am reminded of just how much more civil and respectful the participants are on this forum than they were on the nameless forum. I acknowledge I even threw a few blows from time to time, but always tried to do so only in self defense. Somehow they were not as good at administering as this forum, or we just now have a better group of people with a little more common sense and respect for others. For that, I thank each of you and John for the manner in which this show is run. I wish you all great luck every time you go afield recognizing you will never harvest game each time, nor would this distinguished group want to because they are stewards, hunters and conservationist - not anything like their enemies want to portray them to be.
 
Knee-jerk, "tough-guy", bluster, name-calling, and violent outbursts are a sure sign of one who's emotionally immature and insecure. It's a defensive reaction. And it gains nothing.

Thoughtful, insightful exchanges inform and lead to positive progress in any facet of life. Here - it's in the area of habitat improvement, conservation, game harvesting/stewardship, good land management, and sometimes ............ food & recipe exchanges, or hard cider-making tips !! All good in my book.
 
While I don't disagree with any of that, there was a time, not too long ago, when this forum was the wild, wild, west. I credit much of the civility to the moderators here. It is not easy to walk the tight-rope encouraging folks to challenge each others ideas while ensuring things don't turn to ad homonym attacks. They have done an outstanding job finding the right balance. WTNUT references a great example of how our moderators are willing to make tough decisions and review and reconsider them over time. At one point when controversy here was high, QDMA forum was truly nameless here. That is no longer the case.

While I have no problem living in the wild, wild, west, many do. It drives away both contributors and information consumers from the forum.

Thanks,

Jack
 
Common sense seems much more common in this forum. I thank all for being civil. Drama is not necessary to get a point across.
 
Thanks WTNUT and others....

Bill and Bueller get all the credit. They make the place what it is. I just keep the lights on.

There is a great group of people here and I really enjoy it. Thanks to everyone that contributes, and those that haven't yet should seriously consider doing so.

I don't miss the wild wild west, my heart can't take it :emoji_older_man:
 
There are a lot of people that can't stand negativity. I can appreciate hearing others opinions but when attacks become personal it turns good people off. At one time certain users wanted the locker room talk allowed on here and it got shot down quick by the moderators. I'm real glad they did it.
 
This site is the best one I have come across. It's full of like minded people from around the country trying to develop their properties for all types of wildlife and help us be able to have our families get the most enjoyment from our efforts.
I have learned a ton of stuff on here that I never could have on my own or wouldn't even have thought of trying.
The leaving egos at the door with little bickering is flat out awesome......and there are some really good dog lovers on here!
 
You guys should be careful not to pull a muscle while reaching around to pat yourselves on the back for what's happened here. I think a history lesson is in order to set the record straight on behalf of the guys that are no longer allowed here.


This site was built by the pioneers that called out QDMA (you know, that group that hosed the rest of you when they shut down their forum?) for the empty suits they were. The Minnesota guys poured in here and continued their work of taking on the incestuous relationship between wildlife groups and the MN DNR that is and was strangling the health of the herd in MN. This site didn't start falling apart the first time until some trolls starting making a stink when they got called out for the ludicrous garbage they were spewing. Even more ironic is after the good guys left, the trolls that started the drama in the first place all ended up getting banned anyway.

Now you claim a new moral high ground, where everyone gets along, thinks alike, and there is no drama. I chuckle at that as guys tap dance their way through vaguely worded digs on the guys that are no longer here as well as the chatter about Duffy behind his back. Lots of knowledge and innovation was lost when the founders left here. This site is down to one expert contributor. I hope for the sake of the casual learners here, he's not driven away too.
 
I can't speak to history before I arrived here, but I can say there is nothing close to group think here. In fact, there was much more group think when I arrived than there is now. There is a broad diversity of opinion, but most folks can argue the merits of the point being made rather than resorting to childish personal attacks.

Being civil doesn't mean folks agree. It simply means they can treat each other with respect while disagreeing. We have gained much more than we lost!

Thanks,

Jack
 
Well said SD.
 
I can speak for the history. A few members were instigators and people started calling them out for their indiscretions. It got less than civil and the back and forth got out of hand. The people who called-out the instigators ended up banned, but not the one's who started it. The instigators eventually returned to their ways and are now banned too. I see the same slight of hand comments that sd spoke of towards the retaliators all the time on here. They are referenced (in their absence) in a negative way often. It's unfortunate because they possess a huge amount of knowledge and are good people. A thing to remember is that they landed on a different forum that has zero drama on it. I'm a member there and there is absolutely no bickering... they created none of it. I guess the two groups can stay separated and everyone can keep calm. Too bad though because there is a ton of information out there that is being segregated.
 
Who is the single expert here?
 
OK guys. It's October 25th and we have a major weather change happening in the north with a big time temperature drop coming. So instead of re-hashing old stuff online, get up, get dressed, and get in a tree.
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You guys should be careful not to pull a muscle while reaching around to pat yourselves on the back for what's happened here. I think a history lesson is in order to set the record straight on behalf of the guys that are no longer allowed here.


I'm hunting. Haven't checked in for about 16 hours.
This thread was rightfully locked down but I'm reopening it because I haven't weighed in.

My apologies to the new folks and those that don't like drama.

While I was not a moderator from the beginning I've been here since day 1, I'm not from MN nor are many of the originals. We still have MN posters so the state didn't leave with the few.

I don't know who these mass banned user are. Since June of 2016 there have been 4 legitimate people banned. Two DOR'd and asked that their posts be deleted. Those who left because their panties got in bunch over it are not restricted from posting. You are correct a lot of knowledge left but they left of their own choice.

After becoming a Mod I let previously banned users return. I felt they were friends and they wouldn't make my life difficult. With that in mind, When I took over I wrote a very short list of rules, they are still in a sticky at the top of the forums. The big one is

"When disrespectful disputes arise my plan is to lock a thread, delete a post, the whole thread and even use the Ban button. This will be the hard part of being a Mod as sometimes it may involve a friend I've had for years. If you're a friend expect to be treated more harshly, you shouldn't have put me in the situation."
With the exception of a million Russians and Indians I have never banned a person I didn't respect and consider a friend, at the time.

No one here claims to be an expert. We're all still learning and sharing. Last I knew the definition of an expert is a guy who's wife isn't around to correct him.

The Duffy comment is a distraction. The same guys referenced would cause lots of brew ha if he ever showed up. I'd ban him the second he did, so it's mute.

As for claiming the high ground goes, that's not something I've ever done but I certainly like the feel it has brought here. I've been on many Internet forums over the years. They all take the same path. It's the 80-20 rule. 80% of the members never post but read. 20% actively participate.

A funny thing can happen to that 20% over time. They can grow to feel entitled like it's their place and they don't have to follow the rules because they own the place. That clique then serves no purpose other than to run off new would be contributors that don't whole heartedly join in their antics. Again, I've seen it on many forums not just here.

Here's the simple truth. This place belongs to John. Bueller and I moderate the best we can. I'm not infallible and may be taking the wrong approach. My number one goal here is to keep entitlement from creeping in on the 20% and denying future users the chance to join in.

We've privately had this conversation and decided if that goal leads this place to being our personal blog, so be it. The 20% doesn't own the place. One person with 2 helpers does.

I don't normally weigh in on the drama because it's often useless. I don't ask folks to get along, I don't threaten with PM warnings because it doesn't work. I delete stuff, lock stuff and ban people.

Bottom line. We're happy you (as a collective) join us and contribute the vast amounts of knowledge you do and become our friends. But at the end of the day it's our show, the 20% doesn't get to make the rules.
 
From the rule thread: "Disputes: somewhere along the line we're going to have some. Sometimes disagreement is a good thing as it may lead to a learning experience. When it turns disrespectful any chance for learning ends. So keep it respectful and remember there is nothing wrong with politely agreeing to disagree."

Posts #1 and 2 were clearly disrespectful and pointed straight at current and past members here including myself. I wouldn't have said anything, but it seems me and my guys aren't worthy of equal protection under the conduct rules.
 
From the rule thread: "Disputes: somewhere along the line we're going to have some. Sometimes disagreement is a good thing as it may lead to a learning experience. When it turns disrespectful any chance for learning ends. So keep it respectful and remember there is nothing wrong with politely agreeing to disagree."

Posts #1 and 2 were clearly disrespectful and pointed straight at current and past members here including myself. I wouldn't have said anything, but it seems me and my guys aren't worthy of equal protection under the conduct rules.

I'm not vey good at the back and forth.
But I'll say this. I do apologize if you feel those statements were directed at you and I let them stay.

In my defense
Post 1. "not anything like their enemies want to portray them to be."
I would find it very hard to believe you're my enemy and portray me or the site in a bad way. If I do indeed have enemy's portraying me or the site badly I can live with the post. I just don't see you in it.

Post 2 "Knee-jerk, "tough-guy", bluster, name-calling, and violent outbursts are a sure sign of one who's emotionally immature and insecure. It's a defensive reaction. And it gains nothing. "

To me this pertains to a vast number internet bullies in general. I don't mind it because I really don't want the Internet bullies.

Maybe I'm naive, but I'm sorry, I just don't see you in those two statements and never thought of you when I read them. You're not an enemy or an Internet bully, that I'm aware of.
 
SD51555 - I made post #2 and I didn't point it at anybody in particular - you included. I really don't care anymore who said what to whom. I've also been on other forums and once the back & forth gets to the point where it's just ego vs. ego - and tough-guy bluster - it serves no purpose for the whole forum. If 2 guys are so pissed off at each other that it sounds like knuckle time, then meet each other and go to it. Back & forth bickering gets old, no matter what the subject is, or who's doing the bickering.

I agree the Minn. guys had a beef with their DNR about where the deer herd was headed. Congrats to them for taking a stand. We faced the same crap here in Pa. I'll say that I miss their input, too. But the constant bickering & name-calling is a turn-off when reading through the threads. I don't think all the negative stuff was just from Minn. either. I'm no saint either, but I try to keep my comments & opinions civil. I claim no " high ground ". I've had a few come at me like rabid dogs on forums - name-calling, cussing, swearing, etc. - but I let it drop. What's to gain from that stuff ?? I have better things to do with my time than throw verbal rocks at someone. And I don't think the other " 80% " enjoy reading that stuff ......... no matter who posts it.

Thanks to John, Bill & Bueller.
 
As a former active poster and current active lurker, the forum as never been better.
 
These guys have a task not everyone can do. Hats off to them but, I have to admit I deal with enough drama in my everyday work that it is peaceful coming in here and not having to worry about it. I used to post quite a bit on another site and jump in every once in a while now but hope to post more.

It means something to me giving someone assistance without expectation. Too many these days want to make money off of someone’s desire to learn and do something better. Just hope if I ever help someone else they repay the favor by some day doing the same for another.


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